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How to Beat Being Cheated

There are few things more devastating in a relationship than discovering that your boyfriend has cheated on you. It doesn’t matter whether the relationship is months old or years old, that breach of trust can destroy your self-esteem and leave you wondering what to do next. If you’ve recently been cheated on, or even if you just suspect your man of cheating, here are some tips to help you deal with this painful situation (or prepare for the event...

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What’s with Male Marriage-Phobia?

It’s a timeless plot of romantic comedies: the wedding-crazed girl and her reluctant beau. Any subject that pops up so often in popular culture without a doubt has some basis in reality. Perhaps you’re experiencing some of that in your relationship right now. It hits different women at different times, but for most women there comes a point where she starts to wonder, “When is he going to marry me?” If you’re in a long-term relationship and wonde...

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Bringing a New Fire to Your Relationship

It’s a common problem that almost every couple faces at some point: how do you keep that flame burning? It’s a fact of life that getting too familiar with someone tends to make you take them for granted. It’s also a fact that the more time you spend with someone, the more familiar you get. And of course, if you love someone, you want to spend more time with them. Thus, this problem is practically unavoidable for all but the luckiest of couples. W...

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Cheated and Regret It? Learn What to do Next

We all make mistakes... but some are much bigger than others. Cheating on your significant other is considered one of the most hurtful things that you can do to another person. For some people, they do it out of pure selfishness, but for others it really is just a terrible mistake that fills them with regret – and then even more despair when the person that they loved no longer wants anything to do with them. If you’ve cheated but regret your mis...

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Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship

The question of long distance relationships is a complicated one with no simple answer. A long-distance relationship can indeed work, but it requires a certain type of person – and even then it’s never easy. Here are a few warning signs that a long distance relationship may not work for you.Sign #1: You’re the Jealous TypeJealousy and long distance relationships are a dangerous combination, to say the least. If you’re the type of person who g...

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The Most Desirable Traits a Woman Can Have

As much as we might like for things to be simple, dating is a complicated game – and those who know the rules are sure to have advantage. While every person and every relationship is unique, there are certain traits that the average male finds most attractive in a woman. We’re not saying that you have to have all of these traits to find the guy of you dreams, or even that every guy will go for these exact things – but in general you will have bet...

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Presenting Yourself Well on a Big Date

As much as everyone likes to pride themselves on not being shallow and being open minded, the truth is that most of us are at least a little bit shallow. Whether we do it consciously or not, we do tend to judge people based on their appearance and the way that they carry themselves. That’s why, just like it’s important to present yourself well at job interviews, it’s equally important to present yourself well when out on the dating scene. Here’s ...

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Sex Talk

Almost form the first moment that a man and woman make eye contact, they start thinking about sex, even if it’s only in the back of their minds. Yet many new couples don’t actually talk about sex until weeks, months or even years after they have it. Let’s face it – talking about sex can be pretty hard (no pun intended). Here are some things to keep in mind that might make the discussion a little bit easier.Tip #1: He’s Just as Nervous and Awkwa...

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Understanding Your Guy’s “Man Cave”

One thing in relationships that often causes a lot of confusion for women is the idea that men need “alone time.” It used to be the case that men would need a “guys’ night out” as time away from their wives and girlfriends, but for some men this has evolved into spending a lot of alone time. Often, these men will retreat to their garages or a special room filled with all their favorite “toys” – their man cave.For a lot of women, this new shift ...

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Controlling Your Expectations

Many of us, when we’re adolescents and teens and still learning about love, buy into this idea of love and romance that we see in romantic comedy movies. These are the kinds of relationships that are nothing short of life-changing. Unfortunately, this can be a bit of a problem for people in their early twenties and beyond. Once you get past your teens where your mind is overcome by hormones and you start thinking about things more logically, thos...

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Making a Long Term Relationship Last

When people talk about dating in general, they’re only thinking about the short terms. It’s a funny thing – men and women both, when they meet a potential mate, begin to wonder, “What would it be like to spend my life with this person?” However, after this initial fantasy phase, the idea of long-term dating falls tends to fall by the wayside as both people get focused on the immediate future of the next couple of dates. If you want to date for th...

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Courage to Ask Out Your Crush

The fear of rejection is one of the most universal human fears and that fear is no more apparent than when it comes to asking your crush out on a date. You’ll sit there for hours and play out the scenario time and again in your head, thinking about what you’ll say, how he’ll respond, and where you’ll go from there. Of course, the reality never quite lines up with your expectations, and that’s what makes the whole thing so terrifying. Working thro...

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Getting Past a Nasty Spat

In relationships, fighting is inevitable. Some would even say that if you aren’t fighting with your partner occasionally, you’re doing something wrong and your relationship lacks passion. While that may or may not be an exaggeration, for the majority of couples, fights are just par for the course. Fights are rarely if ever fun, but since they do happen, it’s important to know how to deal with them and not let them ruin an otherwise happy relation...

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Is Your Guy Cheating on You?

No one wants to be cheated on, and sometimes when we let our minds wander we jump to conclusions a little hastily. Still, if you’re concerned that your loved one is cheating on you, the last thing you want to do is make an unwarranted accusation that could cost you your relationship. Here are some signs that could indicate they are cheating, and that you should watch for.Any change in behavior can be an indicator that your loved one is hiding s...

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Enhancing Your Relationship

So you’ve been dating your significant other for a while now and you’ve noticed a turn for the worse. You’re not spending as much time together, or having as much fun when you are, and you find little things bother you more often than they used to. Before you go off breaking up assuming that the two of you are just no good for each other, here are five things you can do to improve your relationship.1. Take some time to make yourself feel good...

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Is it Time to Move in with Your Partner?

You’ve been dating for a long time and now you’re wondering if it’s time to take that next step and move in together. Fortunately for you, there are plenty of indicators that not only let you know that you two can handle living together but if your partner is ready to move in with you. Before you jump the gun and ask your partner if they are ready to take that leap with you, look for these three things that say you’re both ready.1. You spend as...

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Never Do on a First Date

First dates are really important for making a first impression and a bad first date can mean a deal breaker. It’s so easy to have a bad date too, even if everything goes right you could be doing common things that actually give bad vibes. When you’ve met a guy you like and really want to hit it off, here are five big no nos for a first date.No-no #1: Talk about who is going to pay. There’s no reason to ever bring up the discussion of payment fo...

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First Date Tips

Good relationships are hard to come by and when you’re looking to get involved with someone you really want to make sure that you make the best first impression possible. That’s why first dates are so important; it’s your date’s first impression of what dating you would be like. When you want to win him over, use these six tips to have a good first date.Tip #1: Pick the restaurant. It doesn’t matter who asked who out, what’s important is that y...

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Online Dating: Ready to Meet?

Dating has been taken to a new level with most of today’s busy single people using the internet as a way to meet their special someone. It has its advantages, like getting to know each other without inflicting a change upon your regular schedule, but it also presents a brand new problem to dating: when do you meet this online stranger?You could wait until you’re sure he’s the one, but then you could be wasting time talking to a person online th...

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Making a Good Match

Whether it’s a first date or the ninth date, sometimes there are signs that let you know if you and your beau are a good pair. If you’ve been having trouble finding these signs that let you know if you’ve got a good one, here are a few signs that you’re good together.Sign #1: You both schedule dates. When both you and your new guy are making an effort to spend time together, it shows that you both have genuine interest in each other. If one per...

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Quit sabotaging your relationship by dwelling on the small stuff

If you've been in a relationship with someone for a long time, you may start to be annoyed by small things. Things that may never have annoyed you are starting to get on your nerves and you find yourself being irritable with your man.Small things may start turning into bigger arguments when they don't need to. Follow these steps to help you stop arguing so much with your man.1. Is It Something New?If something your man is doing is botheri...

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Are You Too Controlling?

Sometimes it is hard to see certain qualities in yourself – especially if they aren’t qualities you necessarily want to have. It is not always the man who is controlling in a relationship. Women can be controlling too.Should your man be worried? Are you too controlling? If any of the following sounds familiar, perhaps it’s time you take some time for self- reflection.1. You Are His DatebookDo you like the fact that your man always calls you...

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Are your girlfriends the key to better sex?

While I’m not saying women should be shouting off rooftops every time they have good sex - It is shocking that some women never talk about personal sexual experiences – even with their closest girlfriends.Keeping close-lipped about that will only lead to you having a sex-life that you never feel comfortable enough to enjoy. Don’t be shy - sharing sexual experiences will lead to better sex, and here’s why:1. Feeling ComfortableYou may have ...

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You’ve got Him. Now you’ve got to Keep Him!

We’ve all been there. You meet a new guy, and things seem to be going great. Next thing you know, he is frequently unavailable, then he stops returning calls, and eventually you wonder if he’s completely fallen off the planet. You can’t help but wonder “What went wrong?”.Unfortunately, it’s often hard to say exactly what went wrong, but there are some basic rules to follow when you’re in the beginning of a new relationship. Here are some ti...

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A Broken Heart Hurts. How to Get Over it Quickly

Getting your heart broken hurts. A lot. Right now it may seem like you will never get over this terrible feeling. Your confidence is low, your stomach feels sick, and there’s a tight feeling in your chest. I promise you – it will end. Here are some tips for getting over a broken heart faster.1. GrieveWhile it’s appropriate to act like you’re fine at work or other big events, make sure you do take the time to grieve properly. It’s okay to bre...

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I’m Faithful. But is he cheating on me?

We all know that trusting someone is hard. Most relationships’ biggest issues revolve around trust. What does trust mean? In many cases, the biggest question we all ask is: “Is he cheating on me?”While there is no way to know for certain whether or not your man is cheating on you (aside from catching him in the act). Here are some signs to look for to know if he is cheating:Accuses You of LyingWhen a man is cheating, he has a guilty cons...

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Is My New Man Already Taken?

What a different world it would be if we could guarantee that every man would be faithful. Unfortunately, that’s not the case. Some men aren’t satisfied with just one woman, and while they may have a wife or girlfriend at home – they’re out meeting new women and sometimes starting full-blown relationships with them. Look for these clues to know if your man is already taken:1. Meeting at a BarDon’t take this the wrong way. Meeting a man at...

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Everyone Cheats Then – Don’t They?

There are many clichés about when cheating is cheating – and when cheating is just…? Help me out here. If it’s not cheating, I’m not sure what it is. If couples don’t clearly define what cheating is to them, there may be some grey areas. Some people feel that in the following circumstances cheating isn’t really cheating – and it’s almost expected. You may agree or disagree, but here is what I think:1. The Revenge F%$@This is a common excu...

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Make your jealous boyfriend feel secure.

Most people have come across a jealous boyfriend. Sometimes he can tell you why he is jealous – because of a bad relationship in the past, or perhaps his parents always lied to him, etc. Whatever the reason is, if you love him, you need to help him work through this.If he continues to be jealous, it may begin to erode the relationship. If you have a jealous boyfriend, here are some things you can do to ease his jealousy and help him realize tha...

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Sometimes jealous men become controlling. Is it happening to you?

Everybody gets jealous sometimes. When your man gets jealous because he just met your co-worker who is hotter than Brad Pitt and 6 years younger, it can actually be an ego-booster. He actually thinks you have a chance with this guy! Thanks Babe!However, jealousy can easily get out of hand to become controlling. This often happens over time, and you may not see it evolving. Here are some clues that your man is TOO jealous; your man is controllin...

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Don’t keep it bottled up. Talk to your man about what you’re feeling.

One of the biggest problems with relationships is lack of communication. When something is on your mind, it needs to be voiced to the man you are involved with. No good comes from keeping your feelings bottled up. However, many people do keep their feelings bottled up because they are too nervous about bringing it up with their man.Here are some tips to help you build up the courage to talk to your man.1. Why Are You Nervous?What is making ...

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Catch Your Man Cheating. It’s Easier Than you Think.

Do you think your man is cheating on you? Wish you had the funds (and guts) to hire a private investigator? You don’t need to waste your money on that. There are many other ways that you can catch your man cheating. Follow these tips to catch your man cheating on you:1. Cell Phone BillReading his cell phone bill is a sure fire way to get some evidence. Most cell phone bills list every call made and received. If you notice another number showi...

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Cheated on Again? Maybe You’re Asking for It.

Many women have been cheated on once. Some women feel like they always get cheated on, and start to wonder ‘What am I doing wrong?’ When men cheat it doesn’t mean that you have done something wrong. It usually means that the man is simply thinking with his second brain – the one not located in his skull. Nobody can make a man a cheat except himself. However, if you seem to have a track record of men cheating on you, you may want to ask yourself t...

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What’s Cyber-Cheating? Should I be Worried about my Man?

Constant access to internet, cell phones and social media has founded an entirely new breed of cheating on your partner: Cyber-Cheating. Cyber-Cheating is a non-physical relationship kept up over intimate texts, emails, photo exchanges, and even talking face-to-face over the computer on programs such as Skype.Although there is no physical contact – in most cases they never actually meet in person – it can be equally damaging to a relationship ...

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Define cheating as a couple to make sure neither one of you make a mistake.

It seems that there used to be a definition of dating many years ago. The lines were clear and it was easy to judge what was and was not allowed. Over the years, people have become a lot more open about their sexual relationships and desires, and relationship boundaries are often ‘smudged’. When you get into a relationship with someone, you need to clearly define cheating and what you both believe it is.Some questions to start with may be:Is ...

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He Dreams About Sex with Other Women. Does He Want to Cheat on Me?

Your man has a lot of dreams about sex – and it’s not always you that he is having sex with. It makes you uncomfortable, and you don’t know what to make of it. Is it considered emotional cheating? Does it mean he wants to cheat? No. But here’s why:1. He Can’t Control ItPerhaps he had a dream about having sex with his mom’s friend in a mechanics garage. Dreams while you are asleep are far different from daydreams. Dreams are a collaboration o...

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Long-Distance Romance Can Work! Here’s How!

There are different types of long-distance relationships. They can vary from a 2-3 hour drive by car, or it may be a flight across the country or even to another continent to see your man of interest. Whether you met him while you were on holiday, he moved away for business, or it’s someone you met online, some couples will decide the romance is worth a shot, will engage in a long-distance relationship. Although we live in a technology savvy wo...

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How to make sure all his friends love you.

Your friends’ opinions on a new guy you’re seeing can often play a part in how you see him. Likewise, when your new man brings you to meet his friends, their opinions may play a part in how he views you.Some girls just know how to befriend his friends. Being ‘one of the guys’ is a big aspect. Knowing when to put away the ‘girlfriend role’ to bring out the ‘pal role’ is the key to making his friends like you.Making his friends like you is als...

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Playing Detective – Is he cheating on you?

Women’s instincts are usually pretty good. If you think that your man is cheating on you, you may have reason to believe that – and you might be right. However, although you may have good intuition about these things, the only way to know for sure (not like he’s going to admit it if you ask him) is to do a little detective work and find out for certain. Here are some tips to finding out if your man really is cheating on you:1. Act DumbIf y...

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Know that Having an Affair is wrong? Get out!

Extramarital affairs will often happen gradually. You (or He) may be looking for something a little extra – something to make yourself feel good. The relationship you are in may be feeling stagnant. The passion is dwindling, and you’re wondering what else is out there. You may start flirting with other men to feel good about yourself – know that you’ve still got it. Perhaps you take it a little further and go on a date, and then a few more. Bef...

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Not meeting Mr. Right? Learn ways to increase your chances.

Let’s face it. Finding a good man is tough. You’re not interested in anyone at the office, your yoga class is full of eight other women and one gay man, and although the man in your neighboring apartment is pretty cute you’re pretty sure you’ve seen a different girl sleep over there every night this week. Not exactly Mr. Right is it?Sometimes it seems impossible to meet new men. Try the tips below to increase your chances of meeting new men....

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Should I Break Up With Him? Or Forgive and Forget?

So your man has cheated on you, and you don’t know what to do about your relationship. Should you break up? Should your forgive him? There are a few options to think about at this point, and it should be a careful and thought out decision. Let’s take a look at what your options are.1. Forgive and ForgetIt sounds simple, right? Forgive him and move on. It’s not really that simple though. Finding out your man cheated on you really hurts....

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What do I do now? – He cheated on me!

If you just found out that he cheated on you, your emotions will be going wild. You’ll feel angry, you’ll feel hurt, you’ll even likely feel confused. “How could he do this to me!?”. “What do I do now?” Here are some steps to get you through this bad time:1. Take a Time-OutThe first few minutes directly following your finding out that your man has cheated on you are incredibly painful. You may want to throw objects at him, or scream obsc...

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You Cheated – He Doesn’t Know – Is It Over Anyway?

If you cheated and he doesn’t know, you may be feeling a mixture of emotions. You have a big secret that would really hurt him if he ever found out. You’ve thought about telling him, but you’re scared he’ll leave you. Although you think you’re dodging a bullet by keeping it inside, holding a big secret like this might end up ruining your relationship anyway. Here’s why:1. InsecurityYou cheated -You are the guilty party. Knowing that you ...

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I like this new guy, but he has a history of cheating. Am I setting myself up for disaster?

If you’re in a new relationship with a man who has a history of being unfaithful, you may be wondering if he’s actually a good choice to pursue. Knowing his history of cheating will likely make you suspicious of his behavior right from the beginning. However, people can change in the right circumstances, and if you think this might be the man for you, proceed slowly and talk to him about the following things:1. Understand His Previous Relatio...

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Your Man is Watching Porn? Enjoy it!

So you’re in a relationship with a man and you find out that he is still watching porn when he’s home alone. You’re sex life is healthy and you‘re wondering why he still feels the need to watch. Are you not good enough? Is he a pervert? What’s the deal?For some, finding out that your man is watching porn feels like a blow below the belt. (pun intended). There is, however, nothing wrong with it.1. It’s Not an InsultWhatever you may be th...

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Don’t Scare off Mr. Right by being too eager to Marry.

As women get older, we often feel pressure from friends, family, and society to get married, have kids, etc., etc., etc. Sometimes the pressure can also come from within. As women we also have an internal clock that tells us time is ticking away, and to hurry up if we want to have kids someday.Although we may be out there trying to find Mr. Right, he just doesn’t seem to be around. Perhaps you find a few decent men, but the relationships see...

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Feel Like Cheating? Think About it First.

You may be in a committed relationship, and you have been faithful – so far. However, opportunity sometimes comes knocking on your door, and you are finding it harder to resist. Perhaps you are contemplating cheating on your spouse or significant other. Before you go wild with another man, consider the following things to determine if cheating on your man is actually worth it.1. Why Do You Want To?If you have been completely faithful in yo...

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Dating a Married Man? Will he Leave His Wife for you? Do you really want him to?

So you’re dating a married man, are you? He says he’s going to leave his wife, does he? Although I can’t say it never happens – I can say that the chances are pretty slim that he will ever leave his wife for you. If you’re in a relationship with a married man, here are some things to think about:1. You’re Probably Wasting Your TimeI know that you’re in love with this man. Why else would you be hanging on to him when you know he’s already ...

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Become a Modern Woman. Start Online Dating Now.

It seems that nowadays everyone is trying online dating. If you haven’t already started, it may seem a bit strange to you. Going online to view profiles is definitely a far cry from meeting cute guys at the malt shop like the good ol’ days.However, if you haven’t tried it, now is the time to start. It is a great way to meet men that you otherwise may never have crossed paths with.Here are a few tips to get you up and online dating now:1. Ch...

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Dating a Married Man? Friends don’t accept that you’re the other woman? Help them accept the situation.

You’re the other woman. You know that dating a married man isn’t the best choice. However, sometimes your heart has a mind of its own. If you’ve fallen for a man who just happens to be married, the relationship can be complicated. One of the hardest parts about being the other woman is getting acceptance from your close friends. They may never fully accept the idea. When you do tell your friends, follow this advice to make it go as smoothly ...

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Is your man building an emotional intimacy with another woman? It may be considered emotional cheating.

When people talk about cheating, more often than not they are talking about a physical act of cheating. A physical act of cheating would be sleeping with another person or other physical behaviour deemed unacceptable in the relationship. However, there is another type of cheating that is a lot less talked about but no less hurtful. This type of cheating is called emotional cheating. Let’s take a closer look:1. Knowing the DifferenceUnderstan...

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Affair? Rebuilding Trust is Possible.

Trust is the most important aspect of a relationship, so it’s not hard to see why an affair can often lead to the demise of a relationship. However, it doesn’t have to. Rebuilding trust after an affair is not an impossible task – just a difficult one. It will take a lot of time, and a lot of effort from both people involved. Whether it was you or him that cheated, here are some things the guilty party can do to rebuild the lost trust in the rela...

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Meet Your Match online. How it’s done.

So you’ve chosen a site (or two) and you’ve made your attention-grabbing profile. Now you’re starting to get messages, and finding people you want to message. But how do you meet your match? Don’t know what to do? Follow these simple Do’s and Don’ts to get the most out of your online dating experience.DO read the email before browsing their profile. Sometimes when you view a profile you may be put off because it lacks interest. Read the email f...

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Online Dating is Great. Just be Safe about it.

When chat rooms were first introduced more than 10 years ago, there were a lot of people being dishonest about who they were online. Although we have come a long way since then, there are still some things you need to know about dating safely online. Follow these online dating safety Do’s and Don’ts to ensure you have a safe and pleasant experience with online dating.DO give out your phone number to someone you are interested in.DON’T give ou...

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Online Dating? Your profile is important. Make sure to do it right.

Online dating is still a relatively new idea, and if you’re just starting out, you may have some questions. Creating a good profile is very important. Consider it your advertisement for Love. Be sure to put a lot of thought and care into creating it.Follow these DO’s and DON’Ts to achieve maximum results from your online dating profile.DO have a profile picture. People who have a photo on their profile have much higher chances of getting noti...

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Don’t let your words lose their meaning. Show Him your Love.

After you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a long time, saying “I love you” everyday might not be enough. The words, although full of meaning the first time you say them, may start to lose meaning. Actions speak louder than words. You need to show him that you care.It doesn’t have to be hard. Here are some simple ways to show him that you care:Flowers Aren’t Just for WomenWomen always want their men to bring them flowers. Why? B...

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Fire up the bedroom. Sex should be exciting!

One of the best parts about being in a long-term relationship is building on your sex-life. Let’s be honest here – one night stands are usually terrible sex. When you are in a relationship with someone you trust, you can let your guard down and try new things.Keeping a fire lit in the bedroom is very important in keeping a relationship healthy. Try the following suggestions to add some sparks to your sex-life:1. TalkTalking with your partne...

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Should he get a second chance if he cheated?

So you found out he cheated on you. There are a lot of emotions going through your mind right now. Most of all you’re wondering if you should give him another chance, or if breaking up with him is the right thing to do - Unfortunately, you are the only one that can decide that. However, here are some tips to help you make the right decision.1. Once a Cheater… Always a Cheater?Some people believe that if he cheated on you once, he will cheat o...

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He’s Cheating on my Friend – Do I tell her?

So you have reason to believe that your friends man is cheating on her, do you? Wonder if it’s a good idea to tell her? Here are some questions to ask yourself before you make that bold move.1. Are You Sure?Before you go and tell your friend that her man is cheating on her, you need to be sure of your information. Did you physically see something happen? Did you overhear a phone call? Is it just a hunch? If you don’t have some sort of sol...

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Should you tell him you cheated?

So you made a mistake and things went a little too far one night. You had a few too many after-work drinks and went home with a co-worker, or you crossed some boundaries with a friend of yours. However it happened, you cheated on your man, and you feel guilty. Should you tell him you cheated? It’s definitely not an easy decision. Here are some things to think about:1. Will He Find Out?If you are having doubts about whether to tell him you che...

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You just got an STD – Has he been cheating on you?

So you’ve been in a relationship with your man for a while, and suddenly you start to get symptoms of a sexually transmitted disease (STD). You get a test, and it’s confirmed – you have an STD. You haven’t slept with anyone but your man for months. Does this mean your man is cheating on you? Not necessarily. Here are some things to think about before you accuse your man of cheating on you:1. STD’s can be AsymptomaticJust because you are sudde...

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Being ‘the other woman’ can be difficult. Here’s how to survive it.

Are you in a relationship with a man who is married to someone else? That makes you ‘the other woman’. Being the other woman more often than not ends in heartbreak, so on that note I encourage you to end it now. However, you may have already fallen in love and you don’t know where to go from here. Being in a relationship with a married man is a lot different than a regular relationship. Here are some tips to help you survive as ‘the other woman...

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Is he being nice? Or being controlling?

At first you might think it’s sweet that he is giving you so much attention. He wants you to call him to say good night when you get home from work. He’ll show up at your door on Saturday morning with bagels.It seems cute at first, but does he have an ulterior motive? Is the good night phone call a way to check what time you got home? Are the bagels to make sure you are where you said you were?In subtle ways, your man may be trying to control...

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Good communication doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to know how to do it.

Having a meaningful conversation with your man can sometimes be daunting. However, things do need to be said. Good communication is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship.Here are some tips to help make those conversations easier and more meaningful.1. Never Talk When You’re AngryA really good way to make a situation worse, is to talk about something when you’re really angry or upset. Your emotions are boiling and you are bound ...

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Communication technology doesn’t have to hurt your relationship. Here’s how.

Relationships have come a long way in the past few years. True, the introduction of cell phones, e-mail and social media (i.e., Facebook, Twitter), has made communication a lot easier. However, these technologies also have a habit of testing the trust in relationships, and can sometimes cause problems where problems needn’t be.Here are a few ways to keep these problems from getting in the way of an otherwise healthy relationship:Don’t be a Cr...

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Avoid saying these things when your best friend gets cheated on.

You got the call from your best friend – tears, sniffles, sobs – she just found out her boyfriend cheated on her. The first thing you want to do is run over to that guys house and throw rocks through his windows in defense of your best friend (and that’s just the beginning!) but we all know we can’t (shouldn’t) do that. Instead, you need to be a supportive listener to your friend, and as much as you want to say the following statements – don’t!...

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We all know that men cheat – but why?

It would be nice to have only one reason that men cheat – and even better if it was simple enough that their women could put a stop to it. However, there are many reasons that men cheat and not all of them can be stopped. However, some things can be changed. Here is some insight as to why men cheat.1. Opportunity Came KnockingSometimes it really is just that simple. An opportunity arose – maybe that knockout at the office finally gave him som...

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Been cheated on? Starting a new relationship? Learn how to Trust Your Man!

Unfortunately, most women out there (including myself), have been in relationships that have ended due to their man cheating on them. It is one of the worst feelings in the world, and it takes a lot of time to get over it. Which means that starting a new relationship can often be quite difficult.Learning to trust your man can be a very scary thing. However, if you ever want to find that special someone, you are going to have to do it. Here are...

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Women Cheat Too. Is it for the same reasons as men?

Everyone knows that men cheat, but women cheat too. Women cheat on their men a lot more now than they did in the past. Or perhaps it is just now being talked about. Women cheat for some of the same reasons as men do, but they also have a few reasons that are unique. Here is some insight on why women cheat, and how you can stop yourself from making these cheating mistakes.1. Self-EsteemA lack of compliments and/or sex in a relationship can mak...

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