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Of Course Your Partner Means A Lot to You, But What is Too Much?

Often times when people get into a relationship, they become attached at the hip. Itís an important part of getting to know each other, but eventually you need to put some balance back into your life, and be sure you have some time alone to pursue your own interests or spend time with your friends.Not only do you need that time to do things on your own, relying on your partner to satisfy you completely is too much to ask, and it will put a lot...

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Am I Ever Going to Get Married?

Itís usually the women in a relationship who are really eager to tie the knot. Often, men couldnít care less if they actually have a wedding. If youíve been waiting for a ring for a little too long, you may need to take a look at your relationship. How Do I Know How Long to Wait? First off, getting married is a big step. With divorce rates sky-rocketing, itís not a bad idea to make sure youíre really ready to take this step. Itís a really bi...

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Long Term Relationships Can Be a Pain in the Butt!

We all know that being in a long-term relationship can be a trying experience. You love your partner dearly, but living side-by-side another person can be difficult sometimes. You may wish that relationships were like romantic-comedies, where everyone laughs and loves, and everything always works out fine.Thatís not the case, unfortunately, and relationships need some tender loving care in order to survive.How to Make a Relationship LastRe...

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Always in Need of Good Dating Tips?

Dating can be fun, but it can also be exhausting. While itís nice to get dressed up, and make small talk with new and (hopefully) interesting people, having too many first dates can start to get time-consuming and *yawn* boring. When are you going to meet a guy whoís going to stick around?If you find that youíre going on far too many first dates without any follow-ups, maybe you need to take a look at the tips below to brush up on your dating s...

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How to Attract Men

How to Attract Men
Men and women are completely different creatures, which makes the dating scene a difficult one. Women are chasing men, and men are chasing women, (and men are chasing men and women are chasing women, but thatís another storyÖ) but do we all really know what the other is looking for?If you want to attract men into a long-term relationship, there are some things that men are looking for. Here are a few tips on how to be attractive to men:1. S...

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Break Ups Suck

Break Ups Suck
Weíve all been there Ė we think a relationship is going so well. We talk so positively about it to all of our friends, and then WHAM! He breaks up with you. You canít wrap your head around how this could happen. Why doesnít he love you? Who does he love instead? What made him do this to you?You can ask him these questions as much as you like, and you may or may not get any answers. Then youíve gotta hit the road. He doesnít want to be w...

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Starting Another Relationship Ė Donít Set Yourself Up For Failure

Starting Another Relationship Ė Donít Set Yourself Up For Failure
If youíre like many women out there, youíve been in and out of relationships for years, but they all seem to end with a break up. What is going on? You want to be in a relationship so bad, right? But do you even know why?Sometimes women get stuck in rut looking for any relationship to be in because they feel itís better than not being in any relationship at all. But is that true? If youíre about to embark on another relationship, how can you...

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You are the Queen of Failed Relationships

You are the Queen of Failed Relationships
So youíve been through a lot of relationships, and they always seem to fail. What is going wrong? As our history teachers have always said, thereís no better way to plan for the future, than by looking at the past.If you are constantly coming out of failed relationships, itís time you sat down, pen and paper in hand, and made a list of all the similarities in your past relationships.You See a Pattern In Your Failed Relationships Ė Howís Tha...

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Quit sabotaging your relationship by dwelling on the small stuff

If you've been in a relationship with someone for a long time, you may start to be annoyed by small things. Things that may never have annoyed you are starting to get on your nerves and you find yourself being irritable with your man.Small things may start turning into bigger arguments when they don't need to. Follow these steps to help you stop arguing so much with your man.1. Is It Something New?If something your man is doing is botheri...

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Are You Too Controlling?

Sometimes it is hard to see certain qualities in yourself Ė especially if they arenít qualities you necessarily want to have. It is not always the man who is controlling in a relationship. Women can be controlling too.Should your man be worried? Are you too controlling? If any of the following sounds familiar, perhaps itís time you take some time for self- reflection.1. You Are His DatebookDo you like the fact that your man always calls you...

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Are your girlfriends the key to better sex?

While Iím not saying women should be shouting off rooftops every time they have good sex - It is shocking that some women never talk about personal sexual experiences Ė even with their closest girlfriends.Keeping close-lipped about that will only lead to you having a sex-life that you never feel comfortable enough to enjoy. Donít be shy - sharing sexual experiences will lead to better sex, and hereís why:1. Feeling ComfortableYou may have ...

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Youíve got Him. Now youíve got to Keep Him!

Weíve all been there. You meet a new guy, and things seem to be going great. Next thing you know, he is frequently unavailable, then he stops returning calls, and eventually you wonder if heís completely fallen off the planet. You canít help but wonder ďWhat went wrong?Ē.Unfortunately, itís often hard to say exactly what went wrong, but there are some basic rules to follow when youíre in the beginning of a new relationship. Here are some ti...

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A Broken Heart Hurts. How to Get Over it Quickly

Getting your heart broken hurts. A lot. Right now it may seem like you will never get over this terrible feeling. Your confidence is low, your stomach feels sick, and thereís a tight feeling in your chest. I promise you Ė it will end. Here are some tips for getting over a broken heart faster.1. GrieveWhile itís appropriate to act like youíre fine at work or other big events, make sure you do take the time to grieve properly. Itís okay to bre...

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Iím Faithful. But is he cheating on me?

We all know that trusting someone is hard. Most relationshipsí biggest issues revolve around trust. What does trust mean? In many cases, the biggest question we all ask is: ďIs he cheating on me?ĒWhile there is no way to know for certain whether or not your man is cheating on you (aside from catching him in the act). Here are some signs to look for to know if he is cheating:Accuses You of LyingWhen a man is cheating, he has a guilty cons...

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Is My New Man Already Taken?

What a different world it would be if we could guarantee that every man would be faithful. Unfortunately, thatís not the case. Some men arenít satisfied with just one woman, and while they may have a wife or girlfriend at home Ė theyíre out meeting new women and sometimes starting full-blown relationships with them. Look for these clues to know if your man is already taken:1. Meeting at a BarDonít take this the wrong way. Meeting a man at...

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Make your jealous boyfriend feel secure.

Most people have come across a jealous boyfriend. Sometimes he can tell you why he is jealous Ė because of a bad relationship in the past, or perhaps his parents always lied to him, etc. Whatever the reason is, if you love him, you need to help him work through this.If he continues to be jealous, it may begin to erode the relationship. If you have a jealous boyfriend, here are some things you can do to ease his jealousy and help him realize tha...

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Sometimes jealous men become controlling. Is it happening to you?

Everybody gets jealous sometimes. When your man gets jealous because he just met your co-worker who is hotter than Brad Pitt and 6 years younger, it can actually be an ego-booster. He actually thinks you have a chance with this guy! Thanks Babe!However, jealousy can easily get out of hand to become controlling. This often happens over time, and you may not see it evolving. Here are some clues that your man is TOO jealous; your man is controllin...

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Donít keep it bottled up. Talk to your man about what youíre feeling.

One of the biggest problems with relationships is lack of communication. When something is on your mind, it needs to be voiced to the man you are involved with. No good comes from keeping your feelings bottled up. However, many people do keep their feelings bottled up because they are too nervous about bringing it up with their man.Here are some tips to help you build up the courage to talk to your man.1. Why Are You Nervous?What is making ...

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Long-Distance Romance Can Work! Hereís How!

There are different types of long-distance relationships. They can vary from a 2-3 hour drive by car, or it may be a flight across the country or even to another continent to see your man of interest. Whether you met him while you were on holiday, he moved away for business, or itís someone you met online, some couples will decide the romance is worth a shot, will engage in a long-distance relationship. Although we live in a technology savvy wo...

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How to make sure all his friends love you.

Your friendsí opinions on a new guy youíre seeing can often play a part in how you see him. Likewise, when your new man brings you to meet his friends, their opinions may play a part in how he views you.Some girls just know how to befriend his friends. Being Ďone of the guysí is a big aspect. Knowing when to put away the Ďgirlfriend roleí to bring out the Ďpal roleí is the key to making his friends like you.Making his friends like you is als...

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Not meeting Mr. Right? Learn ways to increase your chances.

Letís face it. Finding a good man is tough. Youíre not interested in anyone at the office, your yoga class is full of eight other women and one gay man, and although the man in your neighboring apartment is pretty cute youíre pretty sure youíve seen a different girl sleep over there every night this week. Not exactly Mr. Right is it?Sometimes it seems impossible to meet new men. Try the tips below to increase your chances of meeting new men....

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Your Man is Watching Porn? Enjoy it!

So youíre in a relationship with a man and you find out that he is still watching porn when heís home alone. Youíre sex life is healthy and youĎre wondering why he still feels the need to watch. Are you not good enough? Is he a pervert? Whatís the deal?For some, finding out that your man is watching porn feels like a blow below the belt. (pun intended). There is, however, nothing wrong with it.1. Itís Not an InsultWhatever you may be th...

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Donít Scare off Mr. Right by being too eager to Marry.

As women get older, we often feel pressure from friends, family, and society to get married, have kids, etc., etc., etc. Sometimes the pressure can also come from within. As women we also have an internal clock that tells us time is ticking away, and to hurry up if we want to have kids someday.Although we may be out there trying to find Mr. Right, he just doesnít seem to be around. Perhaps you find a few decent men, but the relationships see...

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Become a Modern Woman. Start Online Dating Now.

It seems that nowadays everyone is trying online dating. If you havenít already started, it may seem a bit strange to you. Going online to view profiles is definitely a far cry from meeting cute guys at the malt shop like the good olí days.However, if you havenít tried it, now is the time to start. It is a great way to meet men that you otherwise may never have crossed paths with.Here are a few tips to get you up and online dating now:1. Ch...

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Meet Your Match online. How itís done.

So youíve chosen a site (or two) and youíve made your attention-grabbing profile. Now youíre starting to get messages, and finding people you want to message. But how do you meet your match? Donít know what to do? Follow these simple Doís and Doníts to get the most out of your online dating experience.DO read the email before browsing their profile. Sometimes when you view a profile you may be put off because it lacks interest. Read the email f...

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Online Dating is Great. Just be Safe about it.

When chat rooms were first introduced more than 10 years ago, there were a lot of people being dishonest about who they were online. Although we have come a long way since then, there are still some things you need to know about dating safely online. Follow these online dating safety Doís and Doníts to ensure you have a safe and pleasant experience with online dating.DO give out your phone number to someone you are interested in.DONíT give ou...

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Online Dating? Your profile is important. Make sure to do it right.

Online dating is still a relatively new idea, and if youíre just starting out, you may have some questions. Creating a good profile is very important. Consider it your advertisement for Love. Be sure to put a lot of thought and care into creating it.Follow these DOís and DONíTs to achieve maximum results from your online dating profile.DO have a profile picture. People who have a photo on their profile have much higher chances of getting noti...

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Donít let your words lose their meaning. Show Him your Love.

After youíve been in a relationship with someone for a long time, saying ďI love youĒ everyday might not be enough. The words, although full of meaning the first time you say them, may start to lose meaning. Actions speak louder than words. You need to show him that you care.It doesnít have to be hard. Here are some simple ways to show him that you care:Flowers Arenít Just for WomenWomen always want their men to bring them flowers. Why? B...

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Fire up the bedroom. Sex should be exciting!

One of the best parts about being in a long-term relationship is building on your sex-life. Letís be honest here Ė one night stands are usually terrible sex. When you are in a relationship with someone you trust, you can let your guard down and try new things.Keeping a fire lit in the bedroom is very important in keeping a relationship healthy. Try the following suggestions to add some sparks to your sex-life:1. TalkTalking with your partne...

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Is he being nice? Or being controlling?

At first you might think itís sweet that he is giving you so much attention. He wants you to call him to say good night when you get home from work. Heíll show up at your door on Saturday morning with bagels.It seems cute at first, but does he have an ulterior motive? Is the good night phone call a way to check what time you got home? Are the bagels to make sure you are where you said you were?In subtle ways, your man may be trying to control...

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Good communication doesnít have to be difficult. You just need to know how to do it.

Having a meaningful conversation with your man can sometimes be daunting. However, things do need to be said. Good communication is essential to a healthy, long-lasting relationship.Here are some tips to help make those conversations easier and more meaningful.1. Never Talk When Youíre AngryA really good way to make a situation worse, is to talk about something when youíre really angry or upset. Your emotions are boiling and you are bound ...

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Communication technology doesnít have to hurt your relationship. Hereís how.

Relationships have come a long way in the past few years. True, the introduction of cell phones, e-mail and social media (i.e., Facebook, Twitter), has made communication a lot easier. However, these technologies also have a habit of testing the trust in relationships, and can sometimes cause problems where problems neednít be.Here are a few ways to keep these problems from getting in the way of an otherwise healthy relationship:Donít be a Cr...

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Been cheated on? Starting a new relationship? Learn how to Trust Your Man!

Unfortunately, most women out there (including myself), have been in relationships that have ended due to their man cheating on them. It is one of the worst feelings in the world, and it takes a lot of time to get over it. Which means that starting a new relationship can often be quite difficult.Learning to trust your man can be a very scary thing. However, if you ever want to find that special someone, you are going to have to do it. Here are...

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