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Porn is a Womenís Best Friend Too

Porn is a Womenís Best Friend Too

So every woman knows that men like to watch porn, right? Iíve never met a man who doesnít watch porn, even if they try to pretend they donít watch porn. I swear itís built into the genetic makeup of the male human species.

While many women donít like porn for various reasons; that itís degrading to women, that itís got far too many close-ups of places that donít need to be seen in full light, or that it is completely cheesy and makes you want to vomit from the storyline. While some of these reasons may be legit, you shouldnít rule out porn quite yet.

First you have to realize, that while porn is often a bit unrealistic, the women in the films are getting paid, itís their choice, and hey Ė some people like it like that. So you need to lay your negative attitude aside a moment and see how porn can actually aid you in your sexual self-discovery.

Why You Should Re-Think your Position on Porn

First of all, not all porn movie-makers have that creepy obsession of getting far too close to places where the sun donít shine. I know that men are more visually stimulated, but I donít like to see right inside a girlís vagina, or the tiny hairs on a manís balls. If youíre like me, donít worry Ė there is plenty of porn out there that keeps the cameras at a safe distance.

Second, most of the cheesy Ďplot-lineí porn isnít worth watching anyways. In my opinion, you need to decide if you want to watch a porn or a movie with a plot. These two shouldnít go hand in hand, and if youíve watched some Ďplotí porn movies, you know that they typically donít anyways. Forget the plot, and focus on sexual acts that you enjoy watching.

Third, donít get freaked out when you find out which sexual acts you enjoy watching. Maybe you find yourself really turned on by watching two girls make out, or by watching double or triple penetration. No, youíre not a lesbian because it turns you on, and no it doesnít mean youíll ever want to try triple penetration either. Sometimes, the act itself just looks sexy, and thatís enough. Thatís the great thing about porn Ė youíre not actually involved, youíre just watching and getting aroused.

Fourth, I know I just said you donít want to practice everything you watch, but sometimes you do. And youíll know it when you do. Watching porn is a great way to get introduced to the big, giant world of sex. Sex is a lot less conventional than many people think, and by watching different porn you may find out thereís an entire side to sex that youíve been missing out on.

With a plethora of porn at your fingertips via the world wide web, you have no excuse not to get out there and explore. Have fun!

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