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Female Masturbation Techniques-Self Love in the Bath

Female Masturbation Techniques-Self Love in the Bath

One of the most sensual female masturbation techniques or methods to experience self love for women takes place in the bath. Yes - without a g spot vibrator or a rabbit dildo or any toys! This is a very natural environment for masturbation: the sensation of warm water surrounding you immediately helps to relax the muscles of the body so that you can tune into your sexual feelings. For women sexual satisfaction also has an emotional content: taking a warm bath provides emotional comfort which plays a role in releasing inhibitions and allowing you to have totally satisfying orgasms.

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Female Masturbation Techniques-Self Love in the Shower

Female Masturbation Techniques-Self Love in the Shower

There are many different female masturbation techniques you can use for pleasure, but the most important thing to help you enjoy it fully is to be relaxed. Whether use use sex toys for women, or only your hand, relaxation is key to a pleasurable session with yourself. More than anything else, physical tension makes it more difficult for a woman to reach her sexual climax and have an orgasm. Since the whole purpose of masturbation is to achieve sexual release, start by making sure you are fully relaxed so that this is easy to do.

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Female Masturbation Toys-Self Love with Silk Stockings

Female Masturbation Toys-Self Love with Silk Stockings

In the quest for physical pleasure some of the female masturbations toys that women use are soft objects such as pillows or rolled towels because many prefer not to use their hands on their clitoris and vagina. Another way to use soft objects and the hands together is by using lingerie items during masturbation; two of the favorites are cotton panties and silk stockings. Both of these materials are noted for their sexual qualities; they feel exceptionally good on the skin. This method of masturbating is not just limited to when a woman is at home alone; it can be done in a place at any time as long as the woman has a level of self control. Because it's geared to clothing items, this makes it easy for the woman who prefers this kind of masturbation to have the orgasm wherever she pleases. The sensation of rubbing the legs together wearing pantyhose can easily produce an orgasm for the woman who enjoys this form of masturbation.

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Female Masturbation Toys-Self Love with Vibrating Panties

Female Masturbation Toys-Self Love with Vibrating Panties

Using female masturbation toys is one of the best ways women can relieve tension and finding new ways to enjoy this thrill often leads to new locations for sex. This masturbation technique is probably the simplest because you simply insert the batteries, slip on the panties, set the level of vibration you want and begin to enjoy sexual stimulation. If you are looking for a way to keep your sex drive ready for action, this is the perfect way to tune up your sex glands. This method of masturbation is also good because it doesn't require you to use your hands; there are many women who prefer this style of sexual stimulation for hygiene reasons. It combines the best of masturbation with soft objects and sex toys in one neat little package.

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Female Masturbation Tips-Self Love with Vibrators

Female Masturbation Tips-Self Love with Vibrators

Probably one of the oldest masturbation techniques for women is with the hand but with the invention of the vibrator, women were able to increase the stimulation of their clitoris and vagina in a way that was impossible to do using just their hand alone. You can get the most out of the experience using these female masturbation tips for using vibrators.

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Female Masturbation Tips- Self Love with Anal Play

Female Masturbation Tips- Self Love with Anal Play

For women who enjoy anal play, there are many female masturbation tips on how you can use sex toys such as anal dildos to increase your pleasure. You may be familiar with the standard model of dildo, but there are many new versions available for use today. In addition to the basic model, there are dildos that have the ability to inflate and deflate to whatever size you desire along with some other stimulating features. But when you want to try something new in masturbation, these erotic items will take your sensory excitement to a higher level.

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Female Masturbation-Self Love with Erotic Massage

Female Masturbation-Self Love with Erotic Massage

To make your female masturbation session fully satisfying, it's good to know the different areas of your body that are your hot spots. While the G-spot is the nerve center of your sexuality with your clitoris as the second most sensitive spot, every woman has other areas of the body that can thoroughly turn her on. For some women, their breast nipples feel as though they are connected to the clitoris, while for others their anus is much more sensitive. With the skin being the largest organ of the body, this is the one true hot spot that most people tend to take for granted when it comes to their erotic pleasure.

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Female Masturbation-Self Love with Two Hands

Female Masturbation-Self Love with Two Hands

Female Masturbation with the hand is the most basic and simplest way to enjoy physical pleasure. Quite often women who masturbate by stimulating their clitoris and vagina with one hand while playing with their nipples or other parts of their body with the other hand. An alternative way is to use both of your hands; one hand stimulating the clitoris and the other hand stimulating the breast nipple, vagina or the anus.

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Female Masturbation Tips: Watch Porn!

Female Masturbation Tips: Watch Porn!

Watching porn is widely considered a manís pastime, not a womanís. But why? While itís true that men are naturally more visually stimulated, whatís to say that women canít enjoy that same pleasure from watching porn?Watching porn while you masturbate is a great way to get your juices flowing. If youíre new to porn, you probably need to begin with something soft-core. There is a lot of porn out there, and you may be shocked by some of the stuff ...

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Masturbation with a Partner

Masturbation with a Partner

While masturbation is typically an activity you do on your own, it doesnít have to be. Many men find it incredibly sexy to watch their partner touch themselves. And if you give it a try, youíll likely find it incredibly sexy to be watched by your partner, too.The main thing you have to get over before you can enjoy masturbation with your partner is that feeling of self-consciousness. You may wonder how you look, or think that he is looking t...

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You Donít Need Expensive Female Sex Toys for Self Pleasure

You Donít Need Expensive Female Sex Toys for Self Pleasure

While itís easy enough to perform female masturbation with the simple use of your own two hands, sometimes it can become monotonous and you may be looking for something a bit more stimulating. If you find yourself in a masturbation rut, and canít afford any female sex toys, you donít need to worry. Plenty of substitutes can be found around the house.Before using any household objects in and around your vagina, however, you need to make sure th...

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Female Masturbation Techniques Ė Mild Voyeurism

Female Masturbation Techniques Ė Mild Voyeurism

Why Mild Voyeurism is an Excellent Female Masturbation TechniqueVoyeurism (sexual acts in public, or while being watched) is an amazing way to increase your arousal, but please note, I am absolutely not telling you to get naked and start masturbating in public places Ė that is illegal.Masturbating in semi-public places can be a really erotic experience. Feeling like youíre doing something daring, or wrong will heighten the sensations you fe...

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Using Fantasies in Female Masturbation

Men are very visual creatures when it comes to sex and masturbation. The sight of one breast bouncing up and down on a screen is usually enough stimulation to quickly guide them into orgasm. Women, however, often need much more than that. Women need emotional and mental stimulation to get aroused, which is why fantasies are womenís biggest aid when it comes to self-love.Start off by getting yourself comfortable. Whether you choose lying on ...

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Female Masturbation Tips: Get more Aroused

If youíre an avid masturbator like most women should be, itís not a surprise that you know your body well enough to reach orgasm in just a couple of minutes. While this is excellent when youíre masturbating just to relax before bed, or let off a little stress, masturbation should also have a time and place to be a fun, prolonged activity.A lot of women donít need to actually watch porn to get themselves aroused, although itís not a bad additio...

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Female Masturbation Toys Make Self Love Even More Incredible

It is pretty common knowledge that vibrators and dildos are sold on the market Ė even if youíve never used them. If you havenít used them, however, that is something you should definitely change!There are many different types of vibrators and dildos on the market- something to meet the needs of every woman out there who is looking to increase her pleasure when she masturbates. There are vibes as small as your pinky finger, up to dildos the si...

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3. What's up, dog, this is one of the hottest female masturbation tips you will ever receive

Level of difficultyEasyLube requiredYesRecommended LubeAdd magic lubricant Recommended ToyBCurious Clit StimulatorMasturbation using the doggie style position - i.e. down on all fours, is one of the hottest female masturbation tips we can pass on to you. Not only is it a very sexy position in itself, but it's also a very effective way to reach down and stimulate yourself in a lot of sensitive areas. Another female masturbation tip - this posit...

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12. Watery-Wow-Wow-Wow, a female masturbation orgasm with just the power of your shower

Level of difficultyBeginners and upLube requiredNoRecommended LubeLure for herRecommended ToyColt Shower ShotWith a little imagination there are so many different options to achieve self-pleasure. A quick check online reveals an Aladdin's Cave of sex toys designed to leave you gasping with delight, but you can be just as imaginative at home with everyday objects such as the bathtub faucet, hot tub, an unscrewed showerhead, and a lot more. As y...

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13. Tickle and Fickle: A masturbation female beginner's technique that will tickle you pink

Level of difficultyTicklishy simpleLube requiredOptionalRecommended LubeAdd magic lubricantRecommended ToyJimmyJane Form 2 Clit VibratorThis great masturbation female technique gives women the perfect opportunity to explore the body while achieving sexual pleasure and freedom. With it, you can experience sexual pleasure without being dependent on your partner. If it's your first time to try it; read on and learn about the one of the easiest mas...

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14. The G-Pamper - The G-spot massage technique that pampers your most erogenous zone

Level of difficultyDedicated beginner or IntermediateLube requiredGel is better Recommended LubeV coolingRecommended ToyCouture Collection InspireOne thing you will discover about your body is that you need a little warm-up to really be in the mood for ejaculation and orgasm. Thus, the 'G-pamper" g-spot massage technique is a great way to give yourself a little time for foreplay. It's a good idea to massage your whole body gently with lots of...

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4. Take it sitting down and open up all sorts of female masturbation possibilities.

Level of difficultyNot so toughLube requiredYesRecommended LubeV coolingRecommended ToyMicro-Butterfly ArouserYou might feel that sitting quietly is a passive and unproductive exercise, but in fact it's a lot of fun to experiment with female masturbation techniques while just sitting there. Sitting down is an excellent method of arousing the clit, playing with the clit directly or indirectly and also stimulating your nipples at the same time. B...

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1. For great clitoral stimulation, take it lying down

Level of difficultyBeginners, intermediate and advancedLube requiredYesRecommended LubePjur womanRecommended ToyJimmyJane Form 2 Clit VibratorFor this technique you have to lie flat on your stomach on the bed, and it's great for direct clitoral stimulation, clitoral stimulation and occasional or constant vaginal penetration, or for clitoral stimulation combined with anal stimulation. Bear in mind that with this technique it's tough to access to...

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10. Strictly for the experts: G-spot ejaculation with large object masturbation techniques

Level of difficultyMaster's degreeLube requiredDefinitelyRecommended LubePink WaterRecommended ToyJimmyJane Form 2 Clit VibratorNo doubt about it, some girls like it big and in fact g-spot ejaculation can only occur for them when the object is sufficiently large to fill the entire vaginal cavity. These objects can be specially designed huge dildos or vibrators as well as vegetables such as cucumbers or bottles. Lubrication is essential when ins...

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17. A clit stimulation toy that will make you Sqweel with delight

Level of difficultySqweely simpleLube requiredYesRecommended LubeLure for herRecommended ToyJimmyJane Form 2 Clit VibratorBefore we introduce you to the Sqweel, remember to stoke the fires of pleasure first. A warm up will make this incredible form of clit stimulation all the more delightful. So to get things going, use your hands to rub your clit. Make sure to run your palm over it. Do it slowly and gently from top to bottom. Do it several tim...

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15. Slippery slope - a female masturbate technique you will want to slip into time and again

Level of difficultyNice and slipperyLube requiredDefinitely and lots of itRecommended LubePink WaterRecommended ToyWe-Vibe G-Spot VibratorFemale masturbate is just as important for females as male masturbation is for men. It's fun, thrilling, and it's how we explore more about our own body. Have you already explored yours? If not, then you're missing something because inside you is a pleasure treasure any woman would wish to discover. Now, if y...

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5. Sometimes when girls masturbate it's standing room only so learn how to improvise

Level of difficultyAccomplishedLube requiredNoRecommended LubePink WaterRecommended ToyIna Rabbit VibratorGuys usually masturbate standing up, and usually girls masturbate lying down. But sometimes it's just not practical to lie on a bed or even sit down, yet you may still be in need of stimulating yourself with masturbation. It's possible to do this, although of course this technique is far less common and easy for women than it is for men. So...

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18. Ice-Ice-Baby: A female masturbation technique that will freeze you and tease you

Level of difficultyIce and easyLube requiredOptionalRecommended LubeAdd magic lubricantRecommended ToyCrystal High Intensity Bullet VibratorFemale masturbation is all about achieving self-pleasure, but that doesn't mean that you have to stick to the old-fashioned female masturbation technique to achieve self-pleasure and sensation. Another thing, if you want self-pleasure, you've got to create it, so read on and learn how an old female masturba...

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9. Hands free masturbation, a girl's masturbation technique just waiting to be discovered

Level of difficultyAnyone can playLube requiredNot always necessaryRecommended LubeV coolingRecommended ToyPleasure Kiss Clit StimulatorIf guys can do hands free masturbation, why can't girls? True there are probably more male masturbation techniques than there are girls masturbation techniques, but that's because guys think about it all the time, so after thousands of years of evolution thinking about very little else, you would rightfully exp...

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11. Sex tips for women who just want great sex without a partner

Level of difficultyBeginners, intermediate and advancedLube requiredYesRecommended LubePjur womanRecommended ToyLuna Pleasure Bead SystemMasturbation gives women the opportunity to explore their body and enjoy a high degree of sexual freedom. Masturbation is one of the key sex tips for women because they can experience sexual pleasure without having to rely on a partner, and it can release sexual tension whenever the need arises.Masturbation ...

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8. Some girls masturbating have to get all tied up in knots to achieve full satisfaction

Level of difficultyUniversityLube requiredYesRecommended LubeAdd magic lubricantRecommended ToyMini Nipple SuckersOf course there are some girls masturbating who like to do everything the hard way and this can apply to those that love to indulge in contortionist positions to achieve climax. These kind of techniques can work for you particularly if you like to have eye contact with your vagina during masturbation. It's also a great way for gravi...

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Gel that Clit - an incredible clitoris stimulation technique that will definitely gel with you

Level of difficultyPatience followed by pleasureLube requiredGel is bestRecommended LubePjur womanRecommended ToyBCurious Clit StimulatorUnlike guys, it's more difficult for women to just flick a switch and be in the mood to masturbate. You will know that you can't be turned on easily and you need to give your body quality time for foreplay to get completely in the mood. The foreplay for this clitoris stimulation technique is to first pay some ...

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7. Frog on a log - hit the g-spot every time with this fantastic masturbation technique

Level of difficultyIntermediate to been around the blockLube requiredYesRecommended LubeLure for herRecommended ToyEmigi Female Sex ToyWe call it Frog on a Log because for this masturbation technique you have to squat like a frog, it may sound a bit uncomfortable and hard on the knees, but this little technique is a truly exciting and very rewarding style of masturbation whereby you squat on top of a dildo or vibrator, moving your hips up and d...

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2. Back to basics, how to use a vibrator and love every minute of it

Level of difficultyBeginners, intermediate and advancedLube requiredYesRecommended LubeLure for herRecommended ToyVoice Activated Rabbit VibratorThere are any number of vibrators on the market, and they seem to grow in complexity and variety with every passing week. They do however fall into basic categories, and one of the first things you need to learn about how to use a vibrator is which is which. The various forms these trembling love machi...

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6. A bit on the side is a great way to achieve a deeply satisfying female orgasm

Level of difficultyIntermediateLube requiredOptionalRecommended LubePjur womanRecommended ToyLeo Liv G-Spot VibratorLet's face it, the female orgasm is a much more significant event than the male orgasm. And if you want to achieve the female orgasm in a degree of comfort and style while on your own, one of the best ways to do it is by lying on your side. It's a comfortable position from which to reach and play with a lot of the body parts that ...

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More Masturbation Tips

The truth is, even in advanced Western societies such as the US and Europe, there are still not that many sufficiently liberated women who are comfortable admitting to the act of female masturbating, never mind discussing it or worse to be caught practicing various masturbating techniques.

Of course certain female movie and pop stars like to allude to female masturbating in songs and videos, but it is still not commonly acceptable for women to talk about such things. It's much more ok to talk about male masturbation than female. It is a given that males masturbate, but for females, even though it might be commonly accepted that they do it, they are not expected to. Mainstream society still perceives that female masturbating is somehow immoral, they shouldn't be thinking about such things, even though the increasingly healthy sales of all kinds of female sex toys would suggest that they are not only thinking about female masturbating but practicing it a great deal.

But masturbation for women also comes with more than its fair share of 'issues'. For example it's often felt that if women have a partner, they should not feel the desire to masturbate. Some guys believe they are failing in the bedroom and take offence or feel insecure if their partner feels the need to indulge in female masturbating. Or if they are single and they masturbate women are often dubbed as lonely or desperate, whereas single men masturbating is a totally normally and acceptable situation which few in society would denigrate.

It's also the case that since masturbation is seen as a "solo" activity, some women with partners feel it is inappropriate for them to masturbate. I's often felt that their partner should somehow fulfill all their sexual needs even if the partner is not attentive. Female masturbating is a process of self-stimulation. The woman's genital regions such as the vagina and the clitoris are stimulated to bring the woman to an orgasm. Typical female masturbation techniques involve the use of the middle or index fingers for rubbing or stroking the genital region. Some women also play with their breasts while masturbating.

Some women deny it but believe it or not, almost every woman masturbates and even practices some techniques not only to achieve self-pleasure but also to discover how to lead more satisfying sex lives. In addition, research reports that there are some female masturbation techniques that actually have benefits as they make women aware of their sexual needs and offer them a self-pleasurable way of exploring their own sexuality. Some women believe that masturbation has helped them increase their self confidence and needless to say, female masturbation through some techniques is definitely an important part of any woman's life. Here are some of the benefits certain female masturbation techniques can give.

In reality a lot of women's sexual needs are not met fully by their partner. And the frequency with which female masturbating occurs should not have to change when they go from being single to having a sexual partner. Some women may find they masturbate even more when they have a partner, as having a partner makes them feel more sexual, and increases their desire for sex and sexual pleasure. So for those many sexy women with a healthy sexual appetite who want to explore masturbation, here are a range of techniques and positions to explore and enjoy.