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Clit vibrators, and how they are utilized.

Clit vibrators, and how they are utilized.

Often one reads about clit vibrators, or perhaps one overhears a conversation with regard to them. However, there are some people who have never used one or even held one, and thus are in the dark about what to do and not do with them.

Granted there are over a thousand different makes, sizes, and designs, some of which are still sold as so called “body massagers.” Granted, many could be used as a body massager, but the majority of sales are still in the sexual aid category, and will be used as a clit vibrator. They are tremendously popular with both women and men because they do help a female in achieving orgasm the greater majority of the time.

They work most of the time, but provided they are handled properly. What is done with a clit vibrator is to stimulate the entire area first of all, and finally the clit itself. Physically a vibrator will increase the blood flow to the area quickly, whereas without such a vibrator it could take a long time as many men can attest. Once the blood flow to the area begins what happens next is that it will actually engorge the vaginal walls. In doing so, the G spot will also swell or engorge. This alone accounts for some of the more intense pleasures felt. Clit stimulators thus do the majority of the “work” entailed in building up the female toward the probability of having what she’ll term as being a breathtaking orgasm.

How Useful Are Clit Vibrators?

The “handled properly” section of the above paragraph may have raised some eyebrows, but it is mentioned only because some partners utilize clit massagers so quickly that they forget that a female is not a machine that can be turned on by the flip of a switch, even if the switch is part of a clit vibrator. There are hundreds of erogenous zones in the female body, and the clit is but one of them. Stroking a female’s hair, soft kisses to her lips, and nibbling on the back of her neck is still necessary, as is paying attention to her breasts and nipples. A clit vibrator is not a shortcut to that aforementioned breathtaking orgasm.

Then too there is the fact that all women are different. While one may love direct clitoral contact from female sex toys, another may totally shun the idea feeling that her own clit is too sensitive for that. Thus the only way to handle the use of a clit vibrator for her is to use it in the general area of her labia. Some women prefer instead to have a vibrator inserted into their genitals and occasionally moved over their clit. Others prefer a direct frontal “attack” with what some guys refer to as a “cement mixer” since the adult sex toys are so large and noisy. The only way that a partner will know what the lady prefers is to either watch carefully as she uses it, or to discuss it with her. Whichever method you choose is up to you, but it is an absolute necessity.

There are some men who love blowjobs above all other sexual acts, and some who only feel that it is a preliminary. Some men prefer that most of the action involve the underside of their penis, and some prefer that only occasionally is it to be concentrated upon. The point I am trying to make is that we are all different, and as important as how you penis is handled is how important it is to the lady that you work clit vibrators in the ways she prefers.

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